Dear Abby …
Dear Abby—I tried really hard to have a relationship with this guy (I’ll call him Mark Z) but every time I share one of my special feelings with him, he turns around and tells ten thousand of his friends, and they all try to figure out how to use it to sell me something. It makes me feel almost like I can’t trust him. Plus he’s taken to wearing my underwear, leaving skid marks in it, and telling me it’s okay because underwear weren’t ‘cool’ until he started soiling them. Plus he’s a lousy lay. What should I do?
—signed, Pouting in Poughkeepsie














